Broken Heart Help – 5 Things to Remember About Dating Guys
Everyone does it. Not everyone loves it. It doesn't matter if you find it stressful and horrible, or just trying to heal your broken heart, or if you really enjoy it, you know that if you are ever going to find the one person who can stop your dating life forever, you have to do it. Girls, you simply have to date guys if you are ever going to find the perfect one for you. So, here are some great tips for you.
Successful dating can be broken down into the five most important things about dating guys. They are:
1. Men are not women. Guys do not like to hang out in malls and shop with their friends and try on outfit after outfit. It's difficult to even drag them there if they need something. Instead use this time to hang out with the girls.
2. Men are not women. They do not want to hear about your feelings every minute of the day or what is wrong with your relationship. You need to pick a time to talk and keep it short, otherwise they will immediately close their ears to you. Avoid making him angry and embarrassed by trying to talk to him in front of his friends or yours. Never, ever compare him to your ex-boyfriend when you finally find the perfect place to talk.
3. Men are not women. Trust me on this one: they do not want to see you show up at their door with no make up on and ratty jeans. It will be ok for this thing to happen – much, much later though, like after the kids are teenagers. But for now, please, girls: take care of yourselves, put on something nice like a cute skirt and a nice shirt, to keep your man interested.
4. Men are not women. Do not take out your cell and begin texting your friends right in front of him, guys do not like that. You should be keeping in touch with your friends but when you are with your man he needs to feel like he's number one. He deserves you to give him your undivided attention. When you are on a date it is just not nice to text or talk on your phone. Your date should never feel like he doesn't have your full attention.
5. Men are not women. They do not find giggling and gossiping about others hilariously interesting and entertaining. According to the male half of the population, who can come up with the most hurtful rumor is nothing to be proud of. Guy do not gossip like girls do, so it is definitely not cool to talk about one of his friends with a rumor that might not be true. Save this kind of talk for the girls over drinks one night.
To having a great time on your dates, remembering these five very important tips will take you much farther with dating guys. You will also get more then one date with the same guys if you follow these 5 important tips. There are lots of people who will offer you lots of advice about dating, and even some who will simply say, "Be yourself".
But trust me, while that is not terrible advice if being yourself includes any of the forbidden behavior in the five most important things to remember when dating guys list, don't be yourself. Be better. Have a better dating life and heal your broken heart, just remember these five very important tips about dating guys.
Filed under Personal Life Coaching by on Sep 2nd, 2010.
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