He Dumped Me – How Can I Heal My Broken Heart

So you've just been dumped. Are you trying to heal your broken heart and wondering how you will survive? This article alone may not be do it but a little help with what's listed here certainly will. You are not a broken person, you just have a broken heart.

When you've been in the position that "he dumped me," you have two fears. One being that your heart will never recover. And the other is you will never be loved again.

Although, take heart, the pain is very real and the fear is real too. You must realize that this fear exists only in your head not in the real world. Your whole life is not over, only part of it.

I've listed some great songs and movies to help you heal your broken heart and get you through this rough time.

If you wanting to wallow in self-pity, well here are some great songs to cry to:

You Keep Me Hangin On – The Supremes
What Goes Around…Comes Around – Justin Timberlake
Un-break My Heart – Toni Braxton
Somebody Kill Me – Adam Sandler
Here Without You – Three Doors Down
With or Without You – U2
My Happy Ending – Avril Lavigne
Precious Things – Tori Amos
Nothing Compares 2 U – Sinead O'Connor
You Were Meant for Me – Jewel

But if you are at the stage where you are ready for some great break up songs promoting some girl power, check these out:

I will Survive – Aretha Franklin
Shut Up – Black Eyed Peas
Since U Been Gone – Kelly Clarkson
It's My Life – No Doubt
You Oughta Know – Alanis Morrisette
Survivor – Destiny’s Child
Irreplaceable – Beyonce
Before He Cheats – Carrie Underwood
These Boots Are Made For Walking – Nancy Sinatra
There You Go – PINK!

Grab your closest girl friends and watch these great break up movies, when you feel songs alone won't help.

1. High Fidelity
2. Rushmore
3. Swingers
4. Wedding Singer
5. Dancer in the Dark
6. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
7. Better Off Dead
8. Casablanca
9. Closer
10. Kill Bill

Each of these movies and songs portrays a different aspect of the breakup cycle. While some are easier then others it's always good to have a good support system around you so you don't have to go through this alone. Invite your friends to tell their break up stories, I'm sure there are some great ones there, don't push your friends away. If we realize we are not alone is sometimes enough to get us through our misery.

You'll find that sense of desperation you felt when he first dumped you is slowly fading away as you begin to let the world back in. And, those fears you had, you'll find that they are totally unfounded. Your soul mate is out there and the truth is you will find him.

You now have a chance to find someone who will love you for who you are, your ex did you a favor by breaking up with you. And, don't forget, to heal your broken heart and move on from him is the best revenge when he dumps you!