He wants to Leave You, The Top 3 Reasons Why and How to Heal Your Broken Heart

Have you ever had that strange yet sick feeling that you are about to be dumped by your boyfriend? Without warning, he doesn’t seem to want to be very loving or caring or even in the vicinity of you. Before you must heal your broken heart, can you mend your relationship? If you do one or more of the things noted below, consider how you can change it.

1. Are you being excessively clingy?
On every occasion you are with your man, do you attach yourself to him? Do you call or text him constantly when he's not with you? Do you whine when he goes out with his friends?

If you do any of these you will eventually push him away. He’s going to call and see you as frequently as he can at the start of the relationship when you are both on your best behavior. As the honeymoon stage is not eternal, his calls and visits will become shorter and fewer and far between. Most women begin to freak out at this point but it's really ok, he still really likes you, he's just getting comfortable. By playing a little hard to get, you’ll have a bigger impact versus you calling him constantly.

2. You tell your friends everything!
The closer you and your partner become, the more relaxed you will be with each other. You may open up to each other about things that you haven't shared with others. Silly stuff may be done in order to make each other laugh. Don’t share these things with your friends, they are personal and as such they should stay between the two of you! Can you imagine how he'd feel if you told your gal pals that he cries or that he tried on your g-string to make you laugh? Put yourself in his position – you wouldn't want him to share your secrets with his friends, would you? Lose his trust and eventually you'll lose him.

3. You are too high maintenance!
Do you always need reassurance on how your relationship is doing? Are you continually scrutinizing every circumstance that comes up between the two of you? Do you question him on how you look all the time? Are you continually probing for compliments?

By continuing to this you will make him mad and your relationship will not survive long! Do not over evaluate his answer when you ask him if you look good before heading out on a date and then make into a enormous debate on your relationship. If you think you need to discuss your relationship then pick an appropriate time, not in the middle of a dinner with his friends. Once, I had a friend do this and it made everyone very uneasy!

By making him believe that nothing pleases you, you make him feel like he can’t do anything right as you uncover mistakes with all he does. If you want to keep your man then you need to lighten up, otherwise you'll be shopping for a new partner instead of a new dress.

You have to take a look at what you are doing that makes you feel like your man is slipping away, are you the one driving him away? Save your relationship by making an attempt to transform yourself instead of having to heal your broken heart.