Helping others with Addiction
Alcoholism and addiction can affect almost any individual because there are so many new opportunities for it to do so now. You have kids and teenagers who are smoking marijuana. There is a lot of peer pressure to drink alcohol in our culture and there is opportunity to do so almost everywhere these days. Then of course there are opiates, which have surpassed Marijuana as being the new gateway drug for today's youth. Opiates have overtaken pot and other drugs among youth today and it is becoming an epidemic of sorts.
So given that the problem is so widespread, what can we do to reach out and help others who are struggling? How can we offer addiction help to those who are caught up in this deadly cycle?
The first tactic is for you to talk to the addict. In some cases though this is really hard to pull off as some addicts will take your helpful attempt more as a threat and so you might have to reconsider if it is actually a good decision. There are times when you could try to keep the peace with a struggling addict, but on the other hand they might be losing control and you'll feel it necessary to take some sort of action, regardless of whether or not it creates any animosity. The ultimate goal is to somehow motivate them to change instead of just letting them spin out even further.
There is no real way of avoiding a confrontation as there is no method to get them to ask for help indirectly. If you ultimately want to see a person change then you are going to have to confront them in some way. Formal interventions can be useful in some cases but they rarely pan out as well as planned. At best they might be a step on the path towards recovery, but don't expect to see instant success right away just because the whole family confronted someone together in a loving manner. They can be useful and they might actually help but don't think that an intervention is a magic bullet – it's not.
Filed under Personal Life Coaching by on Feb 25th, 2009.
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